Share the Moon


{On the bumper of a car outside Danforth Music Hall - Indigo Girls concert}


Apparently, we are most influenced by the music we listen to in our 20s.

The first time I heard the Indigo Girls, I was sitting in the front seat of my first car, beside the girl who would become my best friend. We hadn't know each other long then, having only met weeks earlier on the night shift at a factory that was helping to pay our tuition.

During one of our 3 a.m. breaks, we snuck out to my car, where she pushed a mixed tape into the cassette player and—in the dark and under the stars—I discovered Romeo and Juliet

I watched my friend throw back her head and sing the words: "When we made love, you used to cry. I love you like the stars above, I'm gonna love you 'til I die" like she had already lived them. I could feel her heart dancing with the notes and I wanted to dance with them, too.

It became our summer anthem, and all these years later, it is still our song. It was an intoxicating time—devoted to uncovering a better version of ourselves. She did it all beside me, while we lost ourselves in the lyrics of all those songs. 

There are so many songs on the soundtrack of those days—given to me by special people and from the inside of different relationships. Whether the memories released are beautiful or heartbreaking, I can always find affection in revisiting them. 

Even though I appreciate the new songs from this talented duo, it was their 20-year-old songs I wanted to hear at the Toronto show last week. And with my other best friend, my sister, beside me, I went back to that time.

As we joined the crowd and sang until our voices were hoarse, I thought of my best friend and our cut-off jean short, sunbathing, ice cream sharing selves. Distance and motherhood and responsibilities separated us that night—but those songs were a reminder of how connected we'll always be. 


This post is for my Katerina. Thank you for singing with me.

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Elan Morgan

Elan Morgan is a writer and web designer who works from Elan.Works, a designer and content editor at GenderAvenger, and a speaker who has spoken across North America. They have been seen in the Globe & Mail, Best Health, Woman's Day, and Flow magazines, TEDxRegina, and on CBC News and Radio. They believe in and work to grow both personal and professional quality, genuine community, and meaningful content online.