We Took Our Tastebuds To Prince Edward County

Lake Ontario from the Drake Devonshire

Lake Ontario from the Drake Devonshire

The first time I experienced the white, silky sand and ocean-like vistas of Prince Edward County—an island in Lake Ontario, east of Toronto—I knew I’d found a piece of our province to treasure for years to come. It happened when a group of my university friends decided we should reunite over the summer at Sandbanks Provincial Park for a weekend of camping. As I walked to the crest of my first sand dune, I noticed the sound of the shimmering leaves on the trees and the beautiful bending of the tall grass that lined the paths to the beach. I felt connected to where I was in a way that’s hard to come by during the usual rush and busyness of city life. And when I reached the top of the dune, I didn’t want to come down.

It was the start of a lifelong pull to the area, which you’ll understand if you’ve been lucky enough to spend time there, too. My friends and I continued to reunite in the park each summer, adding on our significant others over the years. And for my own family, camping there became a tradition. We’ve camped in numerous Ontario parks over the years, but Sandbanks is at the very top of our kids’ list.

Drake Motor Inn, Wellington, Ontario

Drake Motor Inn, Wellington, Ontario

drake motor inn

drake motor inn

This year, we decided to use our shared birthdays to experience the county from a different perspective (and during the fall, since we’ve only ever been in the summer). The weekend began by leaving the kids and ditching tents in favour of a comfortable bed and hot showers. We found exactly what we had in mind at the Drake Motor Inn (the sister inn to the lakeside Devonshire Inn). It would be too dramatic to say we wept when we pushed open the door to our weekend abode, but I will say my eyes were shiny with gratitude. And I know I heard my husband release a most contended sigh. When you live with four growing humans, minimalism is a laughable and lofty goal—one we’ve never been able to achieve.

drake-motor-inn

The location allowed us to walk through and around the town of Wellington easily. The inn also features common rooms filled with ‘70s-inspired decor, magazines, and board games, as well as private patios on each room, and a bespoke, communal firepit. We were also able to access the larger inn and all its amenities, and we enjoyed dinner with a gorgeous view of the lake on our first night.

drake-motor-inn

After a great sleep, we spent the day travelling from one end of the county to the other: visiting tiny shops, breweries and delicious eateries. I’m not saying those things are impossible with your kids, but it’s all so much more enjoyable without the work that comes with travelling as a family. We were able to wander in and out of shops and practice the lost art of browsing with no particular list or agenda at hand. We could feel the clutter of all those to-do lists evaporating with each passing hour. And that is a very fine feeling, indeed.

The actual distance across the county is very manageable and many visitors explore the county by bike. There are also several shuttle services and tour packages available if you’re planning to sample the wineries and breweries while there. The scenery as you move from one village to the next is quite beautiful and we took advantage of the winding side roads, too.

Drake devonshire inn

Drake devonshire inn

Here are some of the highlights of our two-day stay:

Bloomfield public house

Bloomfield public house

BEST FOOD

We set out to enjoy the food during our stay, and we were not disappointed. We dined at the Devonshire for both dinner and breakfast the day we left. There are beautiful seating options, beyond the seated dining area, including a beach bonfire pit and bleacher-style seating that faces the lake. We also ate dinner at the Bloomfield Public House (built inside an old bank) and thoroughly enjoyed our meal there, too.

La Condesa

La Condesa


The front desk at the inn recommended we stop by the local Mexican restaurant, and it ended up being our top food experience of the weekend. Served tapas style, the flavours and attention to presentation in each dish at La Condesa were absolutely wonderful. We couldn’t stop talking about it, and, yes, we can’t wait to take the kids next summer.


BEST COFFEE

enid grace cafe

enid grace cafe


Knowing we would be having a long day of eating ahead, we decided to go in search of a good coffee first thing in the morning, instead of a sit-down breakfast. Across from our inn, we found the Enid Grace Cafe and had the most scrumptious, perfectly smooth Americanos. There was a gorgeous offering of different baked goods, pastries, and breakfast options, too. But we deferred reluctantly and waited until we headed to another village for treats later in the day.

BEST BEER, WINE, AND SPIRITS

La Condesa & Prince Eddy’s cream ale

La Condesa & Prince Eddy’s cream ale

There’s a growing craft-beer industry in the county and the aesthetics of each location are fantastic. Most breweries in the county have vibrant outdoor spaces. The Drake Motor Inn actually backs onto the Midtown Brewery, which is very popular with both the tourists and locals. But the tastiest beer of the weekend went to Prince Eddy’s Cream Ale, from the Prince Eddy’s Brewing Co. Smooth and light, it went down well with the rich food we were recklessly consuming.



County cider

County cider


We also stopped for a cider at County Cider in Wapoos, where the views of the Lake Ontario are absolutely spectacular. Due to the unique topography of the area, there are more than 40 wineries to explore and each one has a signature style and vibe. One of our favourite flavours is the Pinot Noir found at Keint-He Winery and Vineyards.

BEST CHEESE

fifth town artisan cheese co.

fifth town artisan cheese co.

I’ve never been a cheese connoisseur, but after pulling into Fifth Town Artisan Cheese Co. to search for a birthday gift for a friend, I may be a convert. We had the opportunity to enjoy several samples and it was actually hard to narrow down the choices we took home with us. They offer eat-in cheese boards or can prepare you one to take on a picnic (which is what I would do if we went back again). All of their award-winning products are produced environmentally (it’s named Canada’s Greenest Dairy) with locally-sourced ingredients.

BEST BAKED GOODS

Throughout our travels, we noticed a lot of places featuring a Wapoos butter tart. I may not be cheese-savvy, but I do know my butter tarts, and I hoped to find them at another county favourite—the Argarian Market. This delightful market offers an array of locally-sourced and produced food including cheeses, charcuterie, picnic perfect bites (call ahead and they’ll pack a picnic for two for you) and meals-to-go. But it was the baked goods and coffee that we were in search of, and the infamous Wapoos butter tart did not disappoint. This is a must-see stop and there are locations in both Picton (market style) and Bloomfield (bistro and SpeakEasy).

wapoos, prince edward county

wapoos, prince edward county

For us, everything about being in the county can be described in a single word: community. Each business/restaurant/market you visit is a celebration of the people who appreciate the bounty of this unique agriculturally-abundant land. The attention-to-detail you encounter at each stop is what makes the county such a great weekend getaway. You won’t just feel like you’re just sitting down to a meal or sampling a glass of wine—you’ll enjoy beautiful aesthetics, a relaxed vibe, and a welcoming space that makes it so worth the drive.











A Year Of Music 2018: One Concert A Month

What a year 2018 has been. I rode a roller coaster of hope and despair, as I kept my eyes on ears on the world. It would have been so easy to fall heavily into despair, and sometimes I did. But I’ve done my best to stay upright and focussed on the horizon. Music has always been such a comfort and a way to ease tension and release my emotions.

Our one-concert-a-month mission (in year five now!) became a lifeline for me in so many ways this past year. Being in a room filled with strangers that are drawn to the same songs as me, always helps to remedy any feelings I might have that we’re becoming too disconnected. I always come away feeling renewed and flush with optimism that there is a collective good—even when we have to go looking for it.

one-concert-a-month-2018

Each year, when I put together my annual playlist of the artists we were so fortunate to see, I imagine my overseas and American friends (who tell me they look forward to this round-up each year). They are seeking new Canadian talent to explore, and I’m happy to share our abundance with them. To make things easier, I’ve highlighted the Canadian artists in my playlist.

My favourite shows this year were: First Aid Kit, Glen Hansard, Whitehorse, Massey Hall 125th Celebration (Whitehorse, Joel Plaskett, Jim Cuddy, Sam Roberts, Sarah Harmer, Buffy Sainte-Marie, July Talk), and Rufus Wainwright. My husband’s favourites were: Interpol and the Massey Hall show.

I also saw some amazing shows with friends, including Glen Hansard, Justin Timberlake, Pentatonix, and Mumford and Sons. Those are experiences that bring their own form of magic, and I’m so glad I have friends with whom I can dance and sing to music that falls outside the scope of what my monthly concert companion is keen to see. I hope this music moves you as much as it does me.

1) First Aid Kit * Nothing Has To Be True; 2) Whitehorse * Die Alone; 3) Nathaniel Rateliff * You Worry Me; 4) Yeah Yeah Yeahs * Maps; 5) Alvvays * Dreams Tonite; 6) Joel Plaskett * I Love This Town; 7) Jim Cuddy * Skyscraper Soul; 8) Sarah Harmer * Goin’ Out; 9) Buffy Sainte-Marie * The War Racket; 10) Sam Roberts * Hard Road; 11) July Talk * Beck + Call; 12) Beck * Lost Cause; 13) Interpol * NYC; 14) Ray Lamontagne * Let’s Make It Last; 15) Bahamas * No Wrong; 16) Andy Shauf * My Dear Helen; 17) Rufus Wainwright * The Tower Of Learning; 18) Hawksley Workman * Ice Age





A Year Of Music 2017: One Concert A Month

Mac Demarco at Danforth Music Hall (photo credit: Louise Gleeson) 

Mac Demarco at Danforth Music Hall (photo credit: Louise Gleeson) 

As we head into a new year of music, I'm so happy to share my personal playlist of favouirte tracks from last year's one-concert-a-month artists. 2017 brought a lot of nostalgia and reflection about our <ahem> age, even though we do our best to ignore rules about what music we should be listening to...but more about that later.

Like I was saying, 2017 was a fantastic throwback year for us. We kicked it off with Matthew Good's Beautiful Midnight album from 1999. The show was a run through of the album and we enjoyed his soaring vocals and witty candour about taking his kids to Disneyworld — because oh-my-god-you-guys he's doing that kind of thing now, too. 

Feist (FINALLY!) returned to the stage with a show at Massey Hall and it was incredible: goosebumps, tears and laughter. Her newest album has been playing on repeat here, and the song I included on my playlist is my new personal anthem (the video I snuck because we had amazing front row balcony seats is below). Actually, all of the songs on her new album, Pleasureare relatable (seriously, if we're of a similar age grouping, go listen to Any Party right now and just try to keep yourself from nodding in agreement). 

Feist, Baby Be Simple, at Massey Hall, Toronto, 2017

Massey Hall was the venue of the year (which is what will make 2017 one of our most memorable). We saw Alt-J (from amazing seats in the gallery), Grizzly Bear (my ears were ringing for two days afterwards), Jenn Grant (another Canadian songbird), Joan Baez & The Indigo Girls (please let me be half that amazing when I'm in my 70s), Wilco (so many guitars), and glorious, glorious PJ Harvey (another gobsmackingly nostalgic show for us). 

Jenn Grant at Massey hall (PHoto credit: louise gleeson)

Jenn Grant at Massey hall (PHoto credit: louise gleeson)

Shows like Charlotte Day Wilson, Alvvays, and Mac DeMarco were great for people watching, since we're pretty close to being old enough to parent most of the kids that were in the crowd (kids! put those lighters away! fire is dangerous!). Sidebar: I'm so lucky to be on this concert tour with a partner who treats music with so much care and reverence. He's always looking for and reading about new bands. And neither of us worry about being too old to be at these shows. Maybe the kids think we're important music journalists, who knows

Another highlight moment for me was being invited, as one of her long-time fans, into Canadian songbird and über-talent Sarah Slean's home for her new album launch (read about my other-worldly experience here). I was so nervous, I had to call three friends from my car for pep talks before I could muster the courage to go into the party. Her album Metaphysics makes me cry (just like all the albums before) and it was lovely to be able to end 2017 with another full scale concert in December. Sarah's talent is extraordinary, and we are so lucky to call her ours. 

Canadian songbird Sarah Slean (+ me!)

Canadian songbird Sarah Slean (+ me!)

We also had tickets to see The Cranberries in September, but the show was cancelled due to Dolores O'Riordan's health problems at the time. It was devastating to learn of her death earlier this month. The music she created is such a part of my history and coming of age — I've included one of my favourite tracks in this playlist to express my deep respect for her talent. 

This past year also gifted us with a lot of time spent with our siblings at various shows. All of them were memorable, but Wolf Parade and my first listen of I'll Believe in Anything were a highlight for me. I was going through a stressful time and the band's poetic lyrics and beautiful harmonies surprised me. Make sure to give that track your ear.

Here it is: 2017 in a personalized playlist. There were big venues and small bars; full bands and string quartets, old bands and new ones, and so much incredible Canadian talent (k d Lang left us speechless).

I hope you find a song that speaks to your heart, too. 

1) Matthew Good + Strange Days; 2) Wilco + Misunderstood; 3) Sarah Slean + Book Smart, Street Stupid; 4) Constantines + Young Lions; 5) Weaves + Scream (feat. Tanya Tagaq); 6) PJ Harvey + To Bring You My Love; 7) Charlotte Day Wilson + Work; 8) Mac DeMarco + Watching Him Fade Away; 9) Timber Timbre +  Hot Dreams; 10) Hannah Georgas + Don't Go; 11) Joan Baez + Carry It On; 12) Indigo Girls + Everything In Its Own Time; 13) The Cranberries + No Need To Argue; 14) Jenn Grant + Lion With Me; 15) The National + Vanderlyle Crybaby Geeks; 16) Grizzly Bear + Knife; 17) Angus and Julia Stone + A Heartbreak; 18) Alvvays + Forget About Life; 19) Alt-J + Every Other Freckle; 20) Wolf Parade + I'll Believe In Anything; 21) Feist + Baby, Be Simple; 22) k d Lang + Wash Me Clean; 23) Skydiggers + Pull Me Down

 

Back To The Beginning

Our first glimpse of our firstborn

Our first glimpse of our firstborn

I counted down to the moment of our 20-week ultrasound with so much trepidation and excitement. I wanted nothing more than to see our baby and know that everything was okay. But I also wanted my husband to be able to see him/her, too. I knew it would help him feel like he was more a part of what was to come. 

The road to that grainy snapshot of our firstborn was not an easy one to travel. Or at least it didn't look the way we thought it would. It was much longer than we had imagined, and it was scary with all its unexpected interventions. Still, we knew we were among the lucky ones. 

Each symptom and change to my physical body took me on a wild ride from elation (that I was having symptoms) to terror (that something might be wrong). I had to use a lot of self-restraint to avoid calling my midwife every time I felt a twinge, and many times I called her anyway. I peppered her with questions when I did see her, and I scoured the internet between appointments — I don't know what I would have done without the pregnancy boards I found online. 

Lately, I've been trying to reach a goal of organizing all the photos and other sentimental scraps I've been collecting since the beginning of our story. There are bins of loose photos and papers tucked into different hiding spots in our home. These beautiful reminders have followed us to five different houses, and I want them to be carefully preserved.

Last week, I found this photo of the guy who held me up through all my worries (never getting frustrated with any of them), and I cried. I felt all those emotions again, and it reminded me about something he wrote to our baby-to-be. I had been writing in a journal once a week throughout the pregnancy, and sometimes he would surprise me by leaving a note there. 

It has been a few days since we saw you for the first time. It has taken some time for me to fully take in those beautiful, grainy black-and-white images. The first thing I saw were your tiny little legs kicking and then your fingers dancing and reaching across your perfect, little face. My eyes couldn't leave the screen, as the technician scanned quickly back and forth taking her measurements of your petite frame. It was such a relief and such a wonder. I still can't believe you're in there. Part of me thinks you're just going to show up at our front door; a package brought by the stork! Now that I have seen you, I can't wait to hold you. I love you, baby. 

We didn't know we were having a daughter. We wanted to be surprised. But so much about what he wrote that day is a perfect description of who she is, and I must have read it at least 10 times while I cried some more. Those days were magical and they changed us in so many ways. We often joke with each other about the ageing and worrying that comes with parenting, but there is nothing we would change about the gifts we've been given. We are always grateful. 

When I was asked to contribute to a pregnancy by the week feature for Today's Parent magazine, it was such a wonderful chance to experience those early days again. I contributed weeks four to 10, which are often the ones that bring a lot of worry. But, parents-to-be, those days bring a lot of wonder, too.

You can explore the newly launched feature here: Pregnancy By Week